Thomas Joseph Aubrey

December 19, 2018


Thomas Joseph Aubrey, 74, of Raynham, MA passed away on Wednesday, December 19, 2018, surrounded by the love of family. He was the husband of Kathleen (Waters) Aubrey, who was the true love of his life.

Born in Malone, NY, Thomas attained his Master's in Mathematics with a minor in Physics from the University of Rochester. After briefly considering a career in academia, Thomas decided to instead combine his passion for computers with a career. He began working for his current employer, One Beacon, in 1978, and continued working in some capacity there for four decades, most recently as a Senior Network Engineer. He only stopped as of late after becoming ill. Thomas enjoyed his work beyond measure and his co-workers were like his second family.

Thomas loved technology, nature, and especially animals, which included his grand-dogs, Sid and Nancy. He was known for his intelligence, quick wit, sense of humor, and a laugh that could fill a room. His family always benefited from his generosity and was the person everyone turned to for his caring, pragmatic advice. As long as you weren't interrupting his Sunday morning political shows, he would always take the time to listen to you.

Thomas was a single father for many years and devoted to his daughter Jeannette. He met his soulmate, Kathleen, two decades ago, and they were immediately inseparable. Not only did Kathleen become a mom to Thomas' daughter, but he became a father to Kathleen's girls. He loved Audrey and Ashley, as though they had always been his own.

He is predeceased by his parents Maurice and Mildred (Perry) Aubrey. He is survived by his wife Kathleen of Raynham, MA; His daughter Jeannette Pastore and husband, Carlo Jr, of Syracuse, NY; His Stepdaughters Ashley Hunt of Los Angeles, CA and Audrey Hunt of Bournemouth, England; His son Michael Aubrey and wife, Robin (Tynan), of Aurora, CO and their two daughters, Lena and Maureen. As well as his two sisters, Judith (Aubrey) Durling and husband, Robert, Kathy (Aubrey) Ives, and their children.

The family will receive relatives and friends on Saturday, December 22, 2018, from 11am-2pm, in the Crapo-Hathaway Funeral Home, 350 Somerset Ave., Taunton, with Words of Remembrance beginning at 1pm.

Please join his family in sharing your memories of Thomas and of how he personally touched your life.

Donations in Tom's memory may be made to Brigham and Women's Hospital, 116 Huntington Ave., 3rd Floor, Boston, MA 02116


DEC 22. 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM (EST)

Crapo-Hathaway Funeral Home
350 Somerset Avenue
Taunton, MA, 02780

Words of Remembrance

DEC 22. 1:00 PM (EST)

Crapo-Hathaway Funeral Home
350 Somerset Avenue
Taunton, MA, 02780

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